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The Effects of Exposure to Domestic Violence in Childhood

Shelter Provides Help for Families Escaping Domestic Violence

As a witness to domestic violence, a child may experience regressive behaviors or begin struggling in school.Many children who witness domestic violence may also be victims of physical abuse. Both physical abuse and the witnessing of domestic violence can create both short- and long-term difficulties for children, leading to serious physical and mental health problems.

Short-term effects of witnessing domestic violence: Preschoolers exposed to domestic violence may retreat to younger behaviors, such as thumb-sucking, bed-wetting and increased whining and crying. They may also develop signs of terror, including a stutter or hiding, or demonstrate severe separation anxiety.

School-age children may demonstrate poor self-esteem or have falling grades, because they are often likely to blame themselves for the conflicts they witness in the home. Kids may struggle to make friends and will decline to get involved in activities. They may also complain of headaches and stomachaches.

Teenage children may act out by fighting with family members or skipping school. They may be more likely to show symptoms of a serious mental health disorder, like depression.

Long-term effects of witnessing domestic violence: One of the biggest consequences of children being exposed to domestic violence is their tendency to repeat the cycle. A boy who sees his mother being physically abused is 10 times more likely to abuse his female partner when he is an adult. A girl who witnesses her mother being abused is six times more likely to experience sexual assault than a girl who has not been exposed to domestic violence.

Children who witness domestic violence are at an increased risk for both mental and physical health problems in adulthood. Conditions such as depression, poor self-esteem and anxiety, as well as physical problems, such as diabetes, obesity and heart disease.

There are a few key things that you can work on to help a child counter the effects of domestic violence in the home:

  • Help them develop positive relationships with adults
  • Work to help them build a strong self-esteem
  • Encourage them to build healthy friendships

While the child may not be able to forget the abuse they have witnessed, they can learn healthy ways to handle the emotions they experience related to the events.

The Shelter (YWCA St. Joseph) provides support and assistance to families escaping domestic violence. To learn more about the services we offer, including court advocacy, counseling and housing, please contact us today.

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YWCA Shelter: 7 Ways You Can Help Local Women

Everyone Can Help Support Residents and Staff at the YWCA Shelter

From offering a gift card to donating time to clean or watch children, you can help at the YWCA shelter.The Shelter at the YWCA St. Joseph is a place of refuge for women escaping a dangerous situation in a moment of crisis. That moment often comes at the culmination of years of struggle, and the YWCA Shelter provides a transition, where women begin to see the possibility of a different kind of future.

This process of transitioning to a new life requires a lot of support and encouragement, as well as filling practical needs. If you’ve been wondering how you could support the residents of the YWCA Shelter, here are seven suggestions to help you get started:

Donate a gift card. This is a simple gift that helps meet important needs. Women and their children often arrive at the shelter empty-handed, and there is a need to provide them with some basic items to get started on recovery. With these gift cards, we can purchase much-needed items for the residents.

Deliver hygiene items. Products like deodorant, shampoo, conditioner, (ethnic hair care products are always needed), razors, toothbrushes and toothpaste, tampons and pads, diapers and wipes are just a few of the items that are welcome donations for women that have left their homes quickly.

Have a party. Host a party similar to a baby or wedding shower, but ask guests to bring a donation for the YWCA Shelter. Use this opportunity to enjoy time with friends while you support women in need of assistance. You can make it monetary donations and organize games around competitive giving or you could simply invite friends over for wine and appetizers and ask them to bring a case of diapers.

Bake some goodies. Some frosted sugar cookies or a batch of muffins make anybody feel special, and the residents at the YWCA Shelter particularly could use a reminder of life’s special moments.

Serve in our store. Volunteers are always needed to serve in our New Start Store to sort through donations and organize the shelves. We also need volunteers who are willing to staff the store so that residents can shop with their Y-Bucks for the items they are in need of.

Volunteer for childcare: One of the greatest needs at any shelter is volunteering with the children that arrive there. There are numerous opportunities to serve by reading to children, helping with homework and helping during groups.

This list is by no means complete. If you have a desire to support the YWCA Shelter, we have a place for you! Call us for more information about the many ways to encourage the women at the shelter or provide a helping hand.

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YWCA of St. Joseph Receives $20,000 Grant

The Mary Kay Foundation Grant Will Provide Funding for the YWCA Shelter

grantsAs part of the commemoration of Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October, the Mary Kay Foundation awarded grants to shelters across the country. Each grant was for $20,000 and was awarded to a total of 150 shelters across the United States. The YWCA of St. Joseph is a proud recipient of a Mary Kay Foundation Shelter Grant for 2017.

The YWCA Shelter for Abused and Homeless Women and Children was chosen to receive one of the annual grants in order to continue the organization’s efforts to end domestic violence and create new directions toward hope for women throughout the St. Joseph area.

With this year’s grant awards, the Mary Kay Foundation has provided a total of $42 million in funds to shelters across the country. These funds allow for the continued effectiveness of shelters, like the YWCA of St. Joseph, which offers a variety of victim Outreach and Counseling Services in addition to overnight accommodations for those in crisis:

  • 24-hour Crisis Hotline
  • Counseling and legal advocacy
  • Life skills groups
  • Specialized children’s programs
  • Comprehensive help in transitioning to a new start

“More than 700 domestic violence shelters nationwide applied for The Mary Kay Foundation shelter grants this year, which demonstrates the overwhelming need to maintain critical services and provide a safe haven for the survivors of an epidemic that impacts one in every four women,” said Anne Crews, board member of The Mary Kay Foundation℠ and Vice President of Public Affairs for Mary Kay Inc.

“Working to prevent and end domestic violence is a cornerstone of The Foundation, Mary Kay Inc. and for countless members of our independent sales force. Since 2000, The Foundation has invested tens of millions of dollars in our shelter grant program and without a doubt, we know these funds make a difference in homes and communities across the country.”

Homelessness is often a circumstance that occurs in conjunction with a domestic violence situation, so the Shelter provides for foundational needs that allow women to change the direction of their futures. Resources are available to women even if they choose not to stay at the YWCA Shelter or to transition into Bliss Manor. Women moving toward a new future away from domestic violence and abuse can still access help through the YWCA Outreach and Counseling Services. Bliss Manor is the YWCA supported housing service that provides a place for women to begin the process of gaining self-sufficiency in a supportive atmosphere over a one to two-year period of time. We can also assist with permanent housing options.

To learn more about the YWCA of St. Joseph, the Shelter and other victim services, please stop by our location or give us a call. We look forward to assisting you.

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